Everyone has spend a whole lot of time searching for "The One"
The one as in the one whom you will fall in love with, worth sacrificing for, would like to wake up everyday next to her/him.
But your heart always play a mean trick on your head.
Sometimes your heart says "Yes! He/She is the one!"
But your head will say "No. He/She isn't"
And so starts the struggle.
Your heart will try to take over your head.
You will go crazy over her/him, think of her/him all the time, miss her/him at every second
And eventually, your mind says that "Yeah, he/she might be the one"
Then you grew close with them, spend time with them, and then fall for them.
By then you will finally think that maybe he/she really is the one.
You will bring them out on a dinner, find reasons to spend time with them, buy gifts for them, send good morning and good night messages everyday.
But, inevitable things will start to surface.
Choices.
Sooner or later, you will realize facts that you wished you hadn't.
As you grew closer to them, you will talk about almost everything.
Tell each other everything.
And there will come a time, that you knew, that this might not work out.
Then you will feel scared, trying to hold everything from breaking apart.
But the path is inevitable, you will have to face it.
Its like clapping with 1 hand, which makes no sound.
To care for 1 side but when the other side doesn't, was easier said than done.
It hurts when you love someone but they don't love you back.
They will make a whole of effort to stay away from you since they knew you already like them but they don't.
And most of the times, you will wonder, how this happen?
"Where was the intimacy that we used to have?"
"Can we just be close friends only?"
In a way, you wanted them to be happy, and at the same time, you don't.
And in the end, you will still have to let them go.
And when that happens, going back to normal is no longer an option.
Whenever you see them, you will rekindle back your feelings.
And you just can't see them the same way anymore.
The moment you found out that they don't feel the same way as you do, your whole world will begin to fall apart.
Nothing seems to be right, everything seemed to have turned against you, and you are breaking apart inside.
Searching for "The One" will always be a long and tough journey.
It takes a whole lot of patience to find that one special person and a sea courage to fall in love with that person.
A fact about guys who fall in love, it takes a whole lot more courage to fall for someone again.
For girls, they will need a lot time to trust someone again.
Love can be the most happiest thing in the whole world, and at the same time, it can be the one thing that can push you down all the way to the bottom.
Yet in a way, getting to the bottom of the well makes you see things more clearly.
You can finally see the skies which you can't see last time because when you were up high up above it.
It depends on how you wanna see it, and what are you going to do from there on.
Stay in the well and indulge yourself in self pity? Go ahead.
Try to climb up the well and be stronger? Go right ahead.
Stay till someone comes to your rescue? Might be a bad choice but go ahead.
Its your life.
Do what you want.
You are not a kid anymore.
Make a choice and move on.
Love, is not something you can push around or force into a place.
Love is like a puzzle, you need a lot of time and patience to finally see the whole picture.
If you forced a puzzle piece into a place which is not meant to be, you will never get to complete it.
Time is also an important essence here.
Give time, time.
No use rushing into matters that has to do with your life.
Nobody said that life will ever be easy.
Its just It is just something I wanted to share with everyone.
After all, sharing is caring no? :)
And I don't mean to point any fingers to anyone
Its just that I had never blogged in a while and this has been sitting in the draft box for far too long.
:)
Hope this helps all you single heartbroken brats out there! HA HA!
Toodles!
And yes I am a little emo now.
