Humans?

People always said that human is social animal who living in groups.

Honestly speaking I do agreed with this. Human always need each other

to survive. Ain't that people can't live without someone but people can't

live alone. Like for example, if you fall sick and unable to drive to the

nearby clinic, you needs help from others included family and friends.

Or let say if you facing some problems and you couldn't think of the best

solution so you approach someone to get some opinions. And this is

why teachers always want students to study in a group as they able to

exchange comments. Students get to see things from various angles as

different people having different point of view influenced by cultures,

environment, educations, religions and believes, and some other factors.

Some people tend to solve everything by themselves. For me, if its just

a small matter like getting a new pair of shirts, what to cook for dinner and so on,

it is encouraged. On the other hand, if to deal with something able to bring

a huge impact in life, it is better to discuss and share with someone trusted

unless you're someone who able to think wide and see things from different

angles, very sure with your decision, your point of view. Then you may go

ahead. However, think twice before action. And please, once action is taken,

do not regret and go on even though is tough, because it was your choice.

There are some people who, I won't say that they like to settle things alone

but most of the time they did. Guess this is the reason why their friends

category them as Ms or Mr Independent. Somehow I believe that they

often feel helpless and stress deep inside their heart but they can't help.

I am one of them. To tell the truth I'd use to it and I found explaining or

sharing is just wasting my precious time as no one will put trust on me.

As I experience this these days again. People, if I ain't confused

I won't ask. And I am asking for opinions but not lectures.

I am clear that I'll be the final decision maker. Don't throw back the

question to me as I'm the questioner. For example, people asked whether

you wish to on air-con or fan and you throw the question back to him

but in the other way like "Is fan better or air-con better". Damn, please

save me. If the people already decided or knew what is better, he already

did it but not asking you !! Is this considered as communication break

down ? Is the sender's problem or the receiver's or both ? Do people

ever think of why people will ask question ? This is simply because they

don't understand. Also, when people say something like "I need a counselor"

and he will be the judger who judge whether or not a counselor can help

because he is the one who know himself well, he is the one who know what

is able to help. Different people different perception. Probably for others

counselor can help nothing but for him counselor did help something.

There are tons of disappointment deep inside my heart.

I always the good listener but I couldn't get myself one.

And I couldn't find a way to express but to sit on the swing

looking at the blue sky and listening to music.