Relationships

Commitments and trusts is no little issue.
Especially when you are in a relationship.

When you enter a relationship, things that are most important is:

1.Commitment

Commitment refers to your ability to commit for your relationships.

From simple matters such as bringing your spouse out for dinner to your responsibility to protect her.

When you commit, make sure you mean it.

Also make sure you do think for the future.

Relationships are not something that you hold for time being or is temporary.

It is something meant to be taken seriously.

Can you see yourself with this one person in all of your life?

Or to make things easier, can you see yourself together with this person for the next 5 years?

When you commit to someone, confirm your feelings correctly.

Ask yourself, can you love your spouse for as long as you live?

Will you be willing to do anything for her?

2.Trust

Trust literally means how much do you trust in your spouse.
Will you trust him/her with everything you've got and hope for the same trust from them?
Answer is yes.
If you do trust your spouse, they will also do the same to you.
But don't blindly trust in everything they say.
As if an owner throws an imaginary bone and the dog chases it till the end of earth.
Trusting can be a huge issue in relationships.
If you don't have it, never start a relationship.
Cause it will definitely end badly.


And most importantly,

3. LOVE

Without it, nothing will work.
If you have commitment and trust but no love, it is the same as having infinite amount of money without a place to keep it.
Because with commitment, you will be ready.
And when you are ready, you can start to trust them.
But nothing starts without love for each other.
And there is only 1 way you can know how to love really other people.
Is to know God's love for everyone of us.
And is because He loved us first, so we can love others.

All in all, bottom line is that think carefully before you try to start a relationship with someone.
Confirming your feelings is important.
And also the courage to take a leap of faith, to chase after what you really want.
Because relationships are not "just something" in your life.
Because even if it does mean that for you, that doesn't mean that the other side thinks the same.

I bid you all good luck. And hope that you are happy with all of your choices. :)

TOODLES