Or you don't know why?
Or you did something but you didn't know of what you did?
My bet is that everyone once faced this situation at least one time in their lives.
This problem emerges or pops out almost instantly anytime anywhere.
But to solve this problem?
Its a whole different story.
But that is what human nature is.
When we have nothing to do, we look for something to do.
In this case, the dumbest thing to do.
Lets put into a simple example.
A and B were close friends.
Suddenly, B starts to ignore A.
A wonders why.
In the end, A was to stressed up he killed himself.
The end.
See?
That was a rather simple explanation no?
HA HA!
But seriously.
You can't just ignore someone for something that they did unintentionally.
Unless they did it intentionally, then you have every damn right to ignore them.
But there is a differences whether the person you are ignoring is innocent or guilty.
If you are the one being ignored/boycotted, try to find out the reason why you are being treated that way.
Because people don't just react without being stimulated.
Just like the Mimosa plant.
It only closes when people touches it.
Like humans, our self defense mechanism don't just go off without someone trying to hurt us.
And maybe sometimes the reason for their actions isn't always have something to do with you.
It maybe due to another party or another situation.
So don't beat up yourself and think its your fault when people treats you this way.
But to just stay strong and find the reason for their actions.
If you are the one ignoring/boycotting, confirm the fact with your own eyes.
We all know rumors is a MUST in this world.
And rumors=unconfirmed fact
You can't just judge someone when you hear a rumor about them.
Confirm it with your own eyes and then decide where to go from there.
Its just like smoke.
Where there is smoke, you don't just run into the smoke do you? You would eventually ram into a wall or obstacle.
But instead you will be more careful and walk slowly, feeling whatever that is in front of you.
Likewise, if you just trust in what other people says without confirming, you will hurt yourself and the person you are ignoring.
Also never forget that we are not perfect.
Humans are never perfect.
No matter how you strive for perfection, you will never attain it.
The key point is that you must learn how to live with your imperfections.
Thats the only way to a happy lifestyle.
When the society starts to turn against you, don't think that the society is wrong or judgmental only.
We have to think about their viewpoint too.
In other words, look at yourself in the mirror.
Focus on improving yourself from time to time.
Find out what you did wrong and where it went wrong then improve.
But if you DID something wrong and you know it and you just wanna be ignorant about the fact that you once did it?
Go kill yourselves.
You were aware that you once did something bad, and you just intend to patch things up like it never happened?
You are just digging your own grave.
Or if you know that you have a bad attitude and you couldn't care less to change it
You wont get anywhere with that.
Not everyone in this world knows what to do when it happens.
But we just need some guidance and reminder that we need help.
Phrase to remember?
"Always strive for improvement, not perfection"
"Willingness to change gives you more keys to open different doors"
Life is like a huge hallway.
There are multiple doors, with multiple tenants in it.
Will you find an empty room to stay?
Or will you just sleep in the hallway path?
Your choice.
I am aware that I have come up with multiple Life Idioms for multiple situations/occasions.
But it's all relevant and meaningful no?
I might be just getting ahead of myself lol xD
Nevertheless, the feeling of people walking away from you hurts.
But note that also when you decide to do something, you can't just erase it leisurely.
If you wanna walk away, just go.
Never come back, because not everyone is a fool.
We learn from mistakes...... eventually.
So I bid ya'll a good day, and God bless! ^^
TOODLES
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