and i read something really sad yesterday.....there was a guy...he jumped down from the 14th floor just to prove his love for his crush....tho i am not sure what actually happened...
so my post today will be dedicated to this dude with guts for the wrong thing yet i still respect him. his name was Alviss Kong
http://www.facebook.com/alvissk?v=wall
even tho i don't know him,but his story is pretty damn sad....
the last note he wrote before he leave this world was TOUCHING....
http://www.facebook.com/notes/alviss-kong/ni-de-wu-qing-gei-le-wo-wu-bi-de-que-xin-3-alviss-last-note/181668725179222
you can read it here.(use google translate if you wanna know what those people comment and what he wrote....the last picture he took....he claimed it was ugly...but most of us think its nice....well even i la because the last pic he took was when he was crying....(EH but i not gay la K D:)
after i read his note and post....man i went silent for the rest of the day....i felt sorry for him....his story was seriously a touching one
plus this dude seriously attained alot of fame because he jumped for in name of love.....
but on my opinion right....(nope,i shall not insult nor praise him for his action)his actions DEFINITELY moved/touched my heart....)
even though many people says he is a complete idiot and some says he is a brave warrior....i would prefer to refer him as the one who would do anything for his love...or someone who is lost in the world of love.....
at least he knows what is true love when he found one....
but he should really appreciate himself more....he jumped off without thinking about his family and friends who is worrying sick after they saw the last few post he did before he jumped....
especially his sister....she was chatting with him normally without realizing what he would do after midnight....very touching la wei.
first his sister wrote *countdown for wat?* and he replied *jie...wo ♥ ai ^^*(means sister...i love you)
and then his sister replied *Chee ma gan ah u.. Eat wrong ubat ah?* then he said *walao..ur adik always love u...just i doesnt noe how to express my feelings...anyway thx jie for always loving me too ♥*
his sister replied with *Wah seh.. I super gum dung.. 1st time i hear this frm u... Love u too*
and his last reply was....*jie pls take good care of mummy there arhhh...xD ~ n the baby alexis too blerksss..... =D*
it was mostly in cantonese.so if you dont understand,TRY TO. i lazyy translate larr haahh
(its all in his profile)
he also wrote....
P/S : Please do not blame her....Im the one who decided this..she's just the one given me the motivation n courage.....to my FAMILY,please..i beg of u all,dont ever blame on her...
To her future BF : IF U DID ANYTHINGS THAT WOULD HURT HER..I FUCKING SWEAR I'LL FUCKING HAUNT U DOWN EVEN IM JUST A SPIRIT =) !
so his gf basically encouraged him to kill himself and he forgives her o.O
he had such a kind heart....and they was a couple for like 4 months only....and why he would go for such length for his gf....isn't this touching?
well at end of the day,we should all respect his decision. its his choice and no one should say anything about it.
and his actions will definitely leave an impact on the girl....positive or negative i can't say...
and after that he jumped off and became the next hottest news like in facebook and MYfm.LOL
he is receiving like 10 comments every 10 seconds and 100 likes every 10 minutes.LOL
so,for those of you out there. dont say i encourage u to kill yourself or something liddat because I DIDN'T/DON'T ENCOURAGE YOU TO DO THIS. its just a little something i thought i should share with all of you out there.
yes reaching out for your true love is not something bad but this is a whole new different story.
you really shouldn't throw yourself away because of love...you should think of your family who worked hard raising you up trough the all the hardship just to see you jumped off a building/commit suicide??
COME ON LA
don't leave the WHOLE forest for the sake of just ONE flower...
i wont go and say *LOVE ONLY KILLS* or *SEE??LOVE ONLY MEANS DEATH*....all i can say....
Kindness is Limitless....
Love is Eternal....
so, do appreciate those around you before its too late.
what you can do when you are having depression/heartbreak?
try talking/ranting/prating to your closest friend and calm down. don't go and become superman la k =/
you might end up
and most importantly....APPRECIATE YOURSELF MOREEEEEE.
don't go doing reckless stuffs just because you are having a hard time or so.
heres a little experience of mine.
i used to punch walls or glasses to ease my rage.(yes i know its stupid)
but i stopped doing it already after i realize that hurting myself doesn't gives me no sh*t.
stand up and face the problem or seek help!
lastly....think about those who are AROUND you instead those who are WITH you. not to say don't care about those who are with you la, just don't go do stupid reckless actions.
well,imma done ranting now.
going back to study!=P
next post as i said in the last one,will be on christmas eve. ^^
MERRY ADVANCE CHRISTMAS!!!
2 comments:
Well.... he sure is dumb.... committing suicide just for a girl... i know it's for love but he should look at the bigger picture... =.=
anyway, his profile is gone liao... so.... too bad... =S
well,at least i did explain abit about it tho.^^
the notes gone are a loss tho. its seriously touching.
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